ABOUT 4000 DAYS

4000 Days is a powerful documentary chronicling the relentless fight of three families—Gary & Julie DeVercelly, Linda & Eric Oakes, and TJ & Kim Burch—who turned their personal tragedies into a nationwide movement for change. After losing their sons to fraternity hazing, the families found themselves up against a deeply entrenched system that thrived on secrecy, denial, and silence. Refusing to accept that their children died in vain, they joined forces and waged a years-long battle to expose the dangers of hazing, challenge university and fraternity accountability, and push for sweeping legislative reform.

The film’s title, 4000 Days, represents the length of their struggle—the number of days it took to turn grief into action, and action into law. Through raw testimonies, intimate moments, and unprecedented access to the families’ journey, the documentary captures both the heartbreak and the unyielding determination behind their mission. What begins as three stories of unimaginable loss grows into a united movement that redefines how America views fraternity culture and sets a precedent for victim-centered change.

4000 Days is not only a story of loss—it’s a testament to love, resilience, and the power of ordinary people to transform tragedy into lasting impact, ensuring no other family has to endure the same pain.

DEVERCELLY FAMILY

Julie and Gary DeVercelly run a noisy war room of outraged parents. Between them they have lost a dozen kids to hazing. They don’t want to reform the fraternity system. They want to abolish it. Since their son Gary Jr. died 17 years ago, they have been waging a campaign to end hazing. For the past 8 years they have been trying to get legislation passed. The first was with the REACH Act and now a new billed called the “Stop Campus Hazing Act” which would provide much needed transparency at all major universities. Last Summer, led by the DeVercellys, the parents met with 35 legislators ranging from Amy Klobuchar to Lindsey Graham to Jeff Duncan.

OAKES FAMILY

Eric and Linda Oakes lost their only child, Adam to a hazing incident at Virginia Commonwealth University in 2021. His case is heartbreaking as there is evidence that Adam was bullied and tortured to death. Eric chose to not prosecute the kids responsible for Adam's death and has instead required them to participate in Restorative Justice. Part of that is working with us and telling the full story of what they did to Adam. This is the first time that the kids responsible for a high-profile hazing death are going on camera in public to about it. This is very powerful and Eric, along with his niece Courtney White, have become popular on the speaking circuit, recently passing legislation to make Universities in Virginia more accountable and transparent. They are fighting to make hazing a felony, along with our other families.

BURCH FAMILY

Kim and TJ Burch lost their son Nolan in 2014 to a hazing incident at West Virginia University (WVU). Since then, the Burch family has become a major force on the speaking circuit, visiting High Schools and Universities Nationwide. Both appeared in a short film about their son’s death, titled “Breathe, Nolan, Breathe” which went on to win an Emmy Award and landed them TV appearances on shows such as The Tameron Hall Show and CBS Morning News. They both fight to make sure this doesn’t happen to another family and to get answers about what happened to Nolan the day he died. To this day, they don’t know the full story on happened in the room when Nolan was forced to drink a bottle of Whisky.